As of this writing, it’s been just over a week since my mother left this earth to join Jesus in heaven. In this time of mourning, people have offered condolences. “I’m so sorry for your loss,” they say. Their words and sentiments are so kind, because it is true. When loved ones pass away, we do experience a loss of their physical presence in our lives, which can be painful.
I have comfort knowing my mother is in a better place. There is no greater place than heaven, in the presence of God! I also have comfort knowing what I have not lost, all the memories still in my mind and heart.
Jesus made a point to say we should store up “heavenly treasure” rather than focusing on earthly possessions. For one thing, we can’t take them with us. Even more, fancy cars or beautiful clothes will eventually wear out and be destroyed by rust and moths. They won’t last for eternity like the gifts of the Spirit – love, joy, peace.
What we can treasure here on earth are good memories of times spent with our loved ones. For as long as we live, we have an opportunity to store up a “treasury of memories.”
While we are instructed not to live in the past and to make the most of our present circumstances, there is nothing wrong with remembering special moments shared with others. Even Jesus said, as he held the last supper with his disciples, “Do this (again) in remembrance of me.”
What comes to mind when you think of things you could put in your special “treasury of memories”? Perhaps create a special book to write them in, or a box to put papers in, so you can revisit them from time to time. Remember to thank God for the special memories we have that even death can’t take away.
“I thank God every time I remember you.” – Philippians 1:3 (NIV)
“God, whom I serve in my spirit in preaching the gospel of his Son, is my witness how I constantly remember you.” – Romans 1:9 (NIV)
“The memory of the righteous [person] is a [source of] blessing…” – Proverbs 10:7a (AMP)